Where to Turn if You Are Fighting Cancer Alone

Where to Turn if You Are Fighting Cancer Alone

Lindsay
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Lindsay
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Lindsay Modglin

28 months ago at 8:46 PMJanuary 30, 2023 at 8:46 PM

Going through cancer alone can feel isolating. OneVillage offers a place of community and support for cancer patients navigating diagnosis and treatment. Read on for five free services you need to know about if you're fighting cancer alone.

Over the days and weeks following a cancer diagnosis, it’s normal to feel a range of emotions — shock, fear, confusion, and sometimes even loneliness or isolation. For those experiencing cancer alone, these feelings may be amplified. While some are able to lean on a support system of friends and family, this isn’t the case for everyone.

OneVillage has compiled a list of the best five resources for those navigating a cancer diagnosis without a support system—because nobody should have to experience cancer alone.

1. Cancer Helplines

Cancer helplines are often free services that provide callers with information and resources to help navigate through cancer and treatment. These helplines can also help locate national resources, all while providing a listening ear.

  • 24/7 Cancer Helpline by the American Cancer Society provides callers with up-to-date information from a cancer information specialist. This includes info on specific cancers, treatment options, side effects, coping with cancer, pain control, and clinical trials. They can also help locate support groups, medical equipment, social services, transportation, and housing.
  • The Cancer Support Helpline by the Cancer Support Community offers support, guidance, and resources to those experiencing cancer by providing cancer coping assistance, housing resources, and treatment planning resources. They can also connect you with support groups and transportation resources.

2. Support Groups

Cancer support groups provide a sense of community among cancer patients, survivors, and others affected by the disease. Support groups come in many different types — peer-led or professional-led, virtual or in-person — so it’s important to find where you feel the most comfortable.

Some support groups are open to those affected by cancer of all types, while others are geared toward a specific type of cancer. If looking for a local support group, asking your health care team or social worker at the hospital is a great place to start. An internet or social media search may also help you find the right support groups.

  • CancerCare offers a variety of online support groups led by professional oncology social workers where members can post in the groups at any time. There is also a live chat option for certain locations.
  • Cancer Support Community has over 170 locations across the world with programs that include support groups and educational workshops. They also provide the opportunity to build an online community through MyLifeLine.
  • Living AlONE with Cancer: This Facebook support group offers a place of community for those navigating cancer alone.
  • OneVillage: Our powerful community of cancer warriors, caregivers, and survivors come together to share their journeys and provide encouragement for one another. We offer free resources to help those affected by cancer take control of their lives.

3. Support Buddies

Many organizations offer a buddy program for cancer patients. Through this program, you’ll be matched with a support buddy who is typically a patient or a survivor of the same type of cancer.

These support buddies understand many of your feelings and the different aspects of navigating through diagnosis and treatment. Support groups are often a great place to find a support buddy, but there are other options.

  • CanCare matches a person with cancer to a survivor who will help guide and support you through your cancer journey.
  • Imerman Angels partners a cancer patient with a cancer survivor or caregiver, known as a “Mentor Angel”, who has faced the same type of cancer.
  • Cancer Hope Network connects people with a cancer diagnosis to trained support volunteers who have faced cancer and understand the different emotions and struggles you may go through.

4. Transportation Assistance

After a cancer diagnosis, transportation may not be one of the initial thoughts that cross your mind. However, many cancer patients must travel to hospitals and cancer centers that specialize in their particular cancer type and treatment needs.

Transportation to and from these treatments can quickly become a concern. Fortunately, there are several organizations that can help.

  • Air Charity Network provides free flights to people in need of medical treatment across all 50 states.
  • The Good Days provide assistance to help pay travel costs and make travel arrangements to ensure you get the care needed.
  • Mercy Medical Angels, the largest charitable medical transportation system in the world, provides both ground and air transportation for medical care.
  • Road to Recovery Program by the American Cancer Society helps with transportation for those who don’t have a caregiver to drive them.
  • Air Care Alliance offers free medical flights across the country.
  • Corporate Angel Network offers both private and commercial flights at no cost for those seeking cancer care.

5. Housing/Lodging Assistance

Lodging for appointments and treatment regimens can add a costly fee to an already financially stressful situation. These resources may help cover the costs:

  • Hope Lodge provides cancer patients with a free place to stay while traveling for appointments and treatments. There are currently more than 30 Hope Lodge locations throughout the United States and Puerto Rico.
  • Joe’s House is a non-profit organization that partners with lodging centers to provide cancer patients a place to stay at a discounted price while traveling for treatments. They provide a list of cancer treatment centers and hospitals with discounted lodging on their website.
  • Healthcare Hospitality Network has an easy-to-use search tool to help you locate lodging resources in the area where treatment is needed.

You Don't Have to Go Through Cancer Alone

It's easier said than done. Sometimes, opening yourself up to accept help is the hardest part. Letting yourself know it’s okay to do so will help ease some of the financial and emotional stressors that come with a cancer diagnosis.

With the right cancer resources, your experience can be one of aid and support. Use these tools to find the information you need to feel supported during this journey. Lastly, don't be afraid to talk to your medical care team about your needs. Working with a hospital social worker, financial counselor, or case manager may also help you find additional resources in your time of need.

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Johna
Johna Fitz

Fabulous article - especially for single people, so thank you!

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Anni
Anni Xu

Thank you all for sharing your story! And thank you to Lindsay, our author, for always putting together excellent resource lists like this!

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Tom Handley

I personally liked connected with people individually instead of in groups. I love that this offers both solutions because you never know what will be better for you. I liked meeting people just one on one because I felt more comfortable sharing my story then could actually help others better, once I delt with my own shit

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Oliva
Oliva Hawkins

Agreed, Anne! The support groups listed here are great ones too. I recommend researching ones that are specific to your community too, I live in the Boston area and there are age-specific groups that I joined that made me feel so much less lonely and gave me connections to ask for help when I needed it (and give help when they asked!) I know COVID makes everything a little different but if you can find a group to talk to, you really should because you'll never know how helpful it will be.

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Anne
Anne Young

Gah, I wish I had known about this earlier! Being single while going through my diagnosis was one of the toughest things - people always tell you to be strong for loved ones and friends, but when you're single, no one tells you to be strong for yourself! And logistics of house care are still so difficult. Great article, I'm sharing with all the people I met who were fighting cancer alone like me!

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