I keep thinking about a friend of mine who was recently diagnosed with brain cancer and wondering if there is anything I can do to put a smile on her face. But I need your advice - I don’t want to do anything that would seem invasive or make her more sad. Should I send her some healthy snacks or an edible arrangement? Do I call her to check in? Please let me know what I can do that would help! 

I think that the best thing that we can do is just to try to be there and check in with her and give her a place to vent if she wants to.  I remember it was really a bummer for me because when treatment goes on for as long as it does it’s easy for ppl to forget that your’e still going through something even when all of your friends / family have moved on with their lives.

Someone at work got me a subscription to Hulu for my treatment days - I am obsessed with White Lotus! It was kind of a splurge for me to get for myself but when she got the subscription for me it gave me something to do to take my mind off of things during treatment days.

The friends that called once a week, even for a 5 minute talk when I was tired, meant the most to me. Or anyone that dropped off food to help my wife while she was taking care of me and my kids - our freezer was full for months but at least we didn't have to worry about making meals while energy was low

The best thing anyone has done for me is to bring dinner over and also drop off some activities to keep my kids busy.  They really appreciate the extra attention I think.

You can't underestimate how much cleaning someone's house, or just doing something small like changing their sheets, can make them feel.  They made all the difference to me during my cancer so I always try to return the favor when friends or family are also diagnosed.  

What to do for a friend with cancer? 

I've been looking for a solution to chronic pain and have heard from several people that palliative care was effective for them.  I had always though that palliative care is the same thing as hospice.  Does anyone have experience with this?

We used palliative care with my mom when she was in the hospital, they were amazing, kept her completely comfortable.  If I could do it over again I would have started her with palliative care from day 1.

Yes, palliative care is available to anyone even if you're not at end of life stages, whereas hospice is only for people who are at the end of their lives.  Both help provide pain medications and keep you comfortable if you're having any sort of side effects

Yes a lot has changed with palliative care over time.  I get really exhausted and have found that my palliative care team has been helpful to me in a number of ways.  They even helped me get my medical marijuana license too! :)

It's a common misconception that hospice is the same thing as palliative care.  Palliative care is available to anyone and they can help you manage your side effects from headaches to constipation to nausea and everything in between.  Ask your doctor for a referral.

We used palliative care for my grandpa years ago. They were so kind and a great resource to take advantage of. They're not hospice!

Thanks for the info everyone! I didn't realize the difference in hospice and palliative care either!

Palliative care gets a bad rap, I don't know why people don't talk about this more.

I was so lost in my cancer I didn’t even realize I was under Palliative care until I felt joy of wanting to live again. I would have to say my palliative team brought me back to life emotionally! My social worker Amanda has been life altering for me. I didn’t know how to see life after cancer…. But now I see so much more. 

Has anyone tried palliative care? 

Does anyone have advice or experience to share about wearing a wig in public? I've got a couple wigs but I've only worn them around my house because I'm nervous that they'll fall or slip out in public. I'm also just not super confident right now in general because of all the changes my body has gone through from treatment. Anyone else feel this way? 

I've always been one to just rock the bald, so I don't have a ton of advice, but I will say that no one will notice as much as you do! We are always paying so much attention to ourselves, even the tiny changes, and it's comforting for me to know that I pay WAY more attention to myself than anyone else does. Chances are that no one in public will even realize its a wig, and even if they do notice, no one usually says anything but compliments since they have the sense it's a sensitive subject! At least in my experience but maybe I've been lucky. 

It's scary at first, but just go out and go for it! My method was to put myself out there as much as possible and every time I left the house in a wig it got easier. It's good to gain confidence and be comfortable in the house, but the real fun is rocking the wig in the wild!

Love reading everyones advice! I don't have advice to share yet, but I think I'll needing to read this soon so I'm following along

I'd talk to someone in person that wears wigs often, they can give lots of advice for how to keep them secure or other ways to make it look super natural. I also looked up a lot of online tutorials which were helpful too. 

Personally, I would rock the bald look, but do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. I was just reading an article on this site on 7 tips for wigs for cancer patients, I think you should check that out!

Mostly I don't like to wear wigs, more into looking natural, but it depends on every other person. So do whatever you feel confident and comfortable in, so if you want to wear wig, then I'd say give yourself more chances to get accustomed with it. Wish you best. 

I have two wigs that I have worn on and off.  I was aware that I would lose all my hair before going through stem cell transplant.  Many people advised me to just wear a scarf or rock the look.  Personally, I didn't want to go bald.  I was too afraid to lose my hair.  I am not vain but my hair gives me identity and comfort.  Plus going bald means everyone would know that I am going through chemo or have cancer.  I wanted to avoid all of that.  
I found a contact of a local wig store through my social worker.  The owner of the shop was super helpful.  She specializes in custom wigs and had made wigs for many cancer survivors.  She helped me pick wigs that fit my size and style.  I had two wigs made - one with short hair and one longer.  I had a lot fun trying and selecting different wigs.  
I started wearing wigs right after I lost all my hair.  Since mine were custom made, they fit well and I didn't have to worry about slipping them off my bald scalp.  Now I have short and curly hair but I still enjoy wearing wigs once in while.  It's fun to have different styles.  

Honestly I stopped wearing a wig after my second round of cancer.  Too itchy.

Experience with wigs?

Welcome to OneVillage! We are a community of people living with cancer, either as a patient, a survivor, or a loved one of someone who is.  Everyone's story is important, tell us yours below! 

I’m Mary, I’m a colorectal cancer survivor, and am here to get support as I am trying to reintegrate back into my work and other life after treatment. 

hi I'm Janet, new to the group! In treatment for colon cancer. 

Hi everyone! My name is Katherine and I supported my sister during her brain cancer diagnosis. That's why it means so much to me to help the OneVillage community! 

Hi everyone! My name is Carlee. I supported my mom through her breast cancer journey. She's currently in remission after radiation and surgery! 

HI everyone! I'm Barb,  my fiance Troy [37 years ago my very first crush!) has stage 4 lung cancer. We've been together just under 2 years but we've been friends and secret crushes for 37 years! He was recently diagnosed with stage 4 non small cell lung cancer. The oncologist does not communicate well and is only in 1 day a week. This is our first yet very critical cancer diagnosis. I have no support system and I'm struggling every second of every day at the thought of losing my best friend, my fiance, my world.  

Hi Barb, thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry you're going through this, our community is here for you and sending our healing thoughts to your fiance! 

My name is Christina and my mother was recently diagnosed with brain cancer.  

Hi Christina, I’m Ashley, one of the OneVillage ambassadors. I’m so sorry to hear about your mom but please know that we are here to support you. Don’t hesitate to reach out if there’s anything we can help you, so glad you are a part of our group! 

Hi, I'm Karoline.
Newly diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer. Recovered from surgery...and had first chemo two weeks ago. My hair just started thinning and coming out.  Still processing everything...but overall don't feel horrible...(yet).

Hi I am Debbie.  Receiving Chemo for the third time since my diagnosis of Pancreatic Cancer in 2020.  Had Whipple Surgery and was basically cancer free almost to the one year day. 

Welcome everyone, it's so wonderful to have this community.  I'm supporting my husband with prostate cancer, and I'm also a breast cancer survivor myself.  Big warm hugs to everyone! We got this.

Meet the OneVillage Community

Welcome! Let's get introduced.

I hate to say this, but as horrible as my experience has been over the last several years I am grateful for the perspective my cancer journey has given me.  I wasn't always grateful for the perspective at the time I was learning to live with my new reality though.  Wondering if others are experiencing similar emotions or feel like cancer has taught you something? 

"Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear" was my favorite quote.  I thought that if I could face my ultimate fear - having cancer - and get through it, there wasn't much I'd be afraid of doing ever again.  Anyone else feel like this too? 

Even though it's an awful experience, I still feel like everything happens for a reason. I may not know the reason, but I try to lean into the good things that the experience has brought. For example, some of the friends, nurses, and others I've met along the way have been absolute angels and I have an appreciation for relationships like that now more than ever.  


It definitely brought a new perspective to appreciate life, time with those you love, and the smaller experiences and joys! 

For me, it's who you can really count on when times are tough!

That I can do ANYTHING I set my mind to and a diagnosis doesn't define you!

To love myself and give myself a little more grace!

To give myself and others a little more grace!

Cherish every moment of life and also feeling blessed about it. 

Mental Health Matters

What's the most important thing you've learned since being diagnosed? 

I can’t stop crying. Chemo is killing me! I’ve been doing treatments for almost 2 years. I cry all the time. Tried antidepressants but no luck. I’m ready to give up! I don’t wanna die but thus is sooooo hard! Sorry I’m so negative but I’m not sure what to do. My oncologist doesn’t help. She just says it’s your new normal. Again sorry for all tge negativity!

You need a different oncologist. My opinion, and different anti depressants or increase? You do , and do, and do, until it works! Best wishes

My treatments really screwed with my testosterone levels and I was crying for everything and anything. Can they check your hormone levels? Maybe there is something there.

You are allowed to cry and be negative sometimes. It helps to let the anguish out. I'm sorry you are going through this ❤️🙏

My husband is dealing with "chemo for life" as well. Im hoping he isnt on this schedule forever. He's on an emotional and physical rollercoaster, for sure.

I totally feel your pain here, I felt that way many times.  Love and light to you.  I hope you can think of what's going on now as temporary, even though it's completely all consuming now at the moment? 

Sending love to you all, I know hard this is ❤️‍🩹

I've had two recurrances, I totally understand what you're going through.  Hang in there and try to be kind to yourself. 

You are allowed to cry and be negative in these very hard times, but be hopeful and kind to yourself, and never give up. Also I'd say maybe it's time to change your oncologist and do whatever you feel best for you. We're all here for you. Much love!

I can't stop crying! Chemo is killing me! 

Has cancer and chemo completely changed your emotions? I used to be a rock and now I’m more of a river.￼

Yes. I was upset all summer until I made some peace with myself. After I felt like I almost died from a chemo infusion reaction, I somehow became calm and had less fear. I felt lucky to be alive.

Being a cancer patient is an emotional experience. Going through surgery, radiation and chemotherapy are an emotional roller coaster. Completing treatment and moving on to the 5 year observation phase is emotional. Being a cancer patient and survivor has changed my life. My advice is embrace the new you. Don't think of life going back to how it used to be instead focus on creating your new normal.

Yes. I told my BF I just don't understand myself sometimes and just sit and bawl.....everyone tells me it's normal and healthy... I beg to differ! It's embarrassing sometimes

Has cancer and chemo completely changed your emotions? I used to be a rock now I’m more of a river. 🌊

Did you tell people at work about your cancer? When and how?  How did they respond?

Did you work during cancer treatment? How did you manage?

After working during my breast cancer treatment I got really interested in this topic and am now studying it.  If you would be open to discussing it with me email me wjcasper@uta.edu. I especially want to talk to some men becuse mostly women are volunteering. Here is an article my university did on me shortly after active treatment was done -- https://www.uta.edu/news/news-releases/2019/10/09/cancer-fighter

Great article Wendy! 
My initial diagnosis was March 2019 at 42 with very rare and aggressive Merkel Cell Carcinoma.  I had two surgeries to remove initial tumor.  Then went on short term disability while completing radiation.  Went back to work and was doing great.  I made it almost one year then it came back with a vengeance.  
I had robotic thoracic surgery to remove a tumor in my pericardium between heart and sternum.  Then PET scan showed three more inoperable tumors and started Keytruda immediately.  Went back on short term disability for a few weeks.  Then I decided the stress from my current employer was too extreme and unhealthy.  Started with a new employer after just being diagnosed with stage IV metastasis.  Never told my new/current employer and I just finished 2 years of Keytruda about 2 months ago.  I have been NED since the first scan after starting Keytruda.  I go to MD Anderson in 2 days for my first scan after ending Keytruda.  It's been a tough 3 years for us both.
I have often wondered if there is a network who help fighters get back to work or change industries etc.  It is difficult out there currently.

Best regards, 

Ryan Pratt 

Hi Wendy! We're so glad you stopped by.  We would love to help support your research, and love the work you're doing!  Please drop us a line at support@onevillage.io and we'd love to chat more! 

I didn't work during my treatment, but am glad you're doing this research.  I know so many people who have had to work during treatment and it has been hard on them mentally and physically.

Hi Ryan - it's so interesting that you say that about Keytruda.  My husband had the same treatment and found it very effective.  How were your side effects? Hope you are doing well, I am thinking of you and your journey.  It is very hard to get back to work after you've had a diagnosis and gone through something like this.  Wishing you all my best wishes!

Hi Ryan! Welcome to OneVillage! Our team would love to help you find the career resources you need.  If you're interested us making some connections for you send us a note at support@onevillage.io, we'd love to help! 

Ryan so glad that you are feeling better and really sorry about the continuous fight you have been in! I hope that your new employer can be sympathetic and also generous when you let them know (if you let them know). I know that places like OneVillage help support employers to be able to help employees like yours so maybe there are some resources here that can help.

Hi Ryan, So glad to hear you are NED!  It is truly a joyful thing to hear from your doctor!  I am curious to hear more about the job you took right after your stage 4 diagnosis- did you think about telling anyone?  How did you handle times that you were away from the workplace for tests and treatment?  Would love to chat with you if you are open to that.  Wendy (wjcasper@uta.edu)

Hi Ryan, So glad to hear you had such a great response to Keytruda! I'd love to hear more about your story related to your work decisions if you are up for an interview.  If you are send me an email at wjcasper@uta.edu and we can set I a time for talk.  I am offering $20 gift cards for amazon for folks that participate.  Best wishes for continued NED!  Wendy  

Let's talk about cancer and work

I had a meltdown yesterday.  Ever since my diagnosis I have really been struggling to hold it together for myself and my family.  Is anyone else feeling out of control? Does this get better? 

Been there! It happens to all of us.  Sending strength! 

It’s been almost a year since my original diagnosis and I am still not feeling like myself.  The panic isn’t as bad anymore but there isn’t a day that goes by that I’m not reminded of what happened. 

Thanks for posting, I needed to know I wasn't alone today. 

I can relate to this for sure. I feel awful when it happens, too. 

Is it normal to feel emotional when you're nearing the end of treatment? That's what I feel like.  It's strange, I don't know how to process what I'm going through right now.

@Janet - yes for sure, the thing is that there's not really a roadmap for going from patient to survivor.  It can definitely be a scary time 

Wow- so good to know I'm not alone in these feelings. Thanks for sharing, everyone! 

Totally normal. Just getting up and living day to day is enough. You don't have to always keep it together!

This one hit close to home, the first 3 months after I was first diagnosed, I don't think there was a single day where I didn't cry. I just felt like my life was falling apart and there was nothing I could do about it.  

You are not alone, I spent so many days sitting in my room alone and having melt downs, the only thing that went through my head was why me, why me? What did I do that cancer had to choose me? 

This is completely normal! My advice, as hard as it is, talk and open up. The rocks and foundation you can build around you will be so strong if you do this, that it'll make you have a strong platform to fight from

This is totally normal. You're not the only one.

Meltdown

A little something to lighten your spirits :) 

I admire her story. Most people have the normal things like a a roof over your head, a job, family & friends but this poor lady had none of this and still had to find a way to cope with life and diagnosed with cancer.

Thankfully she overcome and found what she needed to make it easier to get through this difficult journey. I want to thank you for such an inspirational story. God bless you on your road to recovery. 

I'm this lady. My name is Wendy Ryals. Y'all, WE together are the CURE for everything!! Yes cancer is still present, but yet WE live.😍💯😍

Meet Patient, Wendy Ryals

That is incredible! So happy the baby is healthy. It's hard to believe that an unborn child would survive the cancer treatment. I wish you good health and happiness for you and your family!!   

 I’m so glad they are okay. There are no words to express how extremely hard being pregnant and looking after your child whilst going through this ordeal. Thanks for sharing your story. I hope you can rejoin your fiancé real soon, get married and live your best life!

Meet Patient, Paola Chavez

A 3-time Neuroblastoma Survivor Reflects on How Childhood Cancer Has Changed Over the Past 10 Years

Definitely agree with that one John; the importance of fitness, especially as we get older. I have always been active doing some kind of exercise or classes from a younger age until now. It has helped me physically and mentally. It’s never too late.

It’s great how he was able to get up and start walking so soon after surgery. That’s determination.

Meet Survivor, John Fields

I remember him from the survival tv show. He made it through in more ways than one!

Yes and it’s so good how he chose to inspire others with his motivational speaking. Not to mention how he treated going through treatment and the show challenge the same way, with determination.

Meet Survivor, Luke Soderling

Our Real Life Stories are a place for you to meet patients, survivors and supporters like you. 

Real Life Stories

The Sleep Deficit: America's Silent Productivity Killer

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Hi there, I actually live in British Columbia Canada. I was first diagnosed in2019 with stage 2/3 breast cancer, I had a double mastectomy and reconstruction, however a few weeks later the reconstruction fell apart which lead to emergency surgery and then two more to be what I thought was finished in April 2021. However I felt like a grain of sand and it grew and I just kept growing, I had asked my doctor to remove it in April but she didn't, I returned to her when it had grown more and she took it out. No one thought it could be, but it was, in the same spot. I had dutifully taken my tamoxifen but screw the 3% chances, it's back. I am getting radiation starting on the 14th of February. However with the shot I am now taking and the new medication that all can have heart issues, I am terrified as the radiation is above my heart.... yeah that's me

Hi Tanya! I'm Amanda, I'm also going through breast cancer myself.  Getting ready to start radiation and scared to death so I totally understand.  Sending you healing hugs, we'll get through this! 

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Wouldn't have been able to do this without my Village!! 

This is a great start for first time villagers like me! Thank you OneVIllage! 

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7 Steps to Build a Village

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This is so helpful- I've had some annoying reactions to adhesives. 

My skin is so sensitive. Thanks for sharing! 

Coconut oil is a lifesaver. My skin breaks out over everything!

This is really interesting. I have also heard that Aloe Vera has plenty of advantages. I will definitely share this article with my Family and Friends.

Hello, thanks for writing this article, unfortunately, you are incorrect about the Patches bandages being adhesive free. They are not. I used your link to look them up and it says right in their product description that they use non toxic adhesive, which while great, is still not always a solution for those with adhesive allergy. Tegaderm, mentioned in your article, usually not an issue for MOST people, also has non toxic adhesive, but for some, like myself, still are allergic to it unfortunately. 

8 Easy-to-Find Solutions for Managing an Adhesive Allergy

It helps to get as much knowledge as possible. It worked for me

What works for one person may not work for you but it's always worth trying.

I think it vary person to person but there is nothing wrong in trying.

Can Complementary Therapies Ease Cancer Treatment Symptoms? What the Science Says

Palliative care frightens some people: Here’s how it helps

THE THINGS I WOULD NEVER DO

Too Often, Women Aren't Told of Sexual Side Effects of Cancer Treatments

Learn from patients and survivors the tips + tricks that worked for them to manage side effects like chemo brain.

Managing Symptoms + Side Effects

Thanks for posting this, it's a topic we need to talk more about!

I hope your parents are well now. Read your article after a long long time. Keep up the good work. 

How I Explain That Gap In My Resume

Honestly this is really helpful to just give a link to your employer for them to have a quick read, then you don't have to do a bunch of explaining yourself. 

I never had a problem with my employer but I think I'm one of the lucky ones. it's great that this includes an option for providing a group gift and personal support, for a lot of us our job is where we spend most of our days and to not have supportibe coworkers and employers can be devastating... at least that's how I felt when I was nervous to talk about it, but then eveything worked out.

It's all about listening to what the patient needs and wants, and making sure they're comfortable enough to share the truth.... but my advice is if your employer is supporting you well during this time, leave. It;s better to focus on your life than worry about a job that can't even care for you during a time of need. 

Flexibility is the most important part in my opinion. I think every job should be flexible with their employees because we have lives that are more important than work, but it's really extra important when you're a caregiver or patient who has different schedules and enery levels everyday.

We found that giving them options and flexibility for the care is key. This is unprecedented for anyone and being supportive in a real way and not just a gift basket is key.

3 Ways to Support Employees with Cancer 

I just want to share, to anyone who feels discriminated as a person diagnosed with cancer is not your fault! 

Thanks for sharing these tips! I find them helpful so I could also educate my close friends about this. 

I want to say this to everyone going through cancer that there's more to life than what there seems on the surface. When you find this, you'll gain more hope for the future than ever. 

If one feels they have been discriminated against, what is the appropriate course of action?  Should  they contact EEOC or seek counsel from an attorney who specializes in corporate/ business law for legal advice first?

@Ryan, I'm a Patient & Caregiver Advocate here at OneVillage. I found an American Cancer Society article that may help with your question. It's a little tricky, because cancer isn't always considered a "disability" under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), but it can be under certain circumstances. With respect to reporting such discrimination, here is an excerpt from the article: 

What should I do if I think I’m being discriminated against in a work situation because of my disability?

If you think you have been discriminated against at work because of a disability, you can file a complaint with an Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) field office located in certain cities throughout the United States. If you work for a state or local government, the process is the same as for a private employer. You can contact the EEOC at 1-800-669-4000.

Full article can be accessed here: https://www.cancer.org/treatment/finding-and-paying-for-treatment/health-insurance-laws/americans-with-disabilities-act.html

Before You Share Your Cancer Diagnosis at Work

 I  did exactly the same thing and worked to take my mind away from all that was happening when when my dad died. People thought I was crazy, especially when you can’t stand going to work but it really helped me. I get it.

 I found it extremely hard to make that first approach/conversation with a workmate that was diagnosed. I just didn’t want to say the wrong thing but I’m glad I found the courage. She had a lot of support and also received some well needed work benefits

Well I think we all should support our co worker who is diagnosed with cancer. We should try to make a normal and healthier conversation so that he can also feel courage.

Building a More Supportive Workplace for Cancer Patients

Always keep your manager/supervisor updated and talk with your health care provider to make the best decision for yourself.

Shared this article with a friend who's having a hard time going back to work after treatment. I hope this might help her get informed. 

Working During Cancer Treatment

This community is created for cancer patients adjusting to their work environment before, after  or during a diagnosis.

Cancer & the Workplace

Thanks, Danielle, for writing such a great article! 

My best friend for many years was just diagnosed for cancer, she has two young boys and doesn't know how to tell them, this article could be a huge help!

Finding a way to tell your young children that you have been diagnosed with cancer is one of the most challenging things, but now that such helpful articles such as this, it is so much easier.

Nothing was harder when they are younger because it is hard to put into 'their words'. Praying for anyone who has to do that :(

I feel you on that. I used to struggle with this too when it first got started. Trying to tell your younger kids about your cancel is the hardest thing.

Let Them Know Cancer Is Not Contagious.  It's also important for them to know that your disease is not contagious, and they can't catch it from you like catching a cold. That may be the only kind of disease they are familiar with, and you will need to explain that not all diseases are spread from person to person.

Yes, you're absolutely right. I think everyone should be aware of this fact.

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How to Tell Your Young Kids You Have Cancer

Telling children about being diagnosed with cancer is the hardest part. You don't know if they will understand or how they will react which makes it really tough to know how to tell them. Great article!

When I was first diagnosed with cancer, the hardest part was telling my kids. I wasn't sure at first how they would take it or if they even would understand what I was telling them. This is a great article, things like these are very challenging, this article could be very useful. 

This story hit close to home for me, when I was diagnosed, I didn't know how I could be able to tell my children about my cancer diagnosis, it took me quite a while, but I was finally able to do it. I can't really imagine it being easy for anyone to tell their children, but did anyone find it easy for them to tell their children?

@David, telling children was actually not too hard for me as my children were young teens, so they were easily able to understand and also had a sense of what was going on even before my diagnosis.

I imagine telling children about cancer diagnosed is the toughest part for anyone. But then I read comments and stories of people that actually diagnosed with cancer saying that I was not that hard to tell our children about the cancer.

This is a multi emotional read for me. When my MIL told us, we were much older but even the grandkids had to hear it in a way that they really just didn't comprehend at their age. 

How to Tell Children the Truth About Cancer

Giving yourself time to rest is so important! Thanks for sharing Jennifer!

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Meet Survivor, Jennifer B.

I have been looking for something like this, thank you for sharing

It's so great to see the Mighty and Bright books featured here, those were such a huge help to me as well as a friend of mine who's recently started treatment too! Fortunately I'd kept the books and was able to loan them to her ❤️

I just purchased a couple of these on Amazon.  It's so hard to know what to say to young kids about this, I'm not even processing it myself half the time

My wife and I got our youngest a few books to help make sense of the diganosis.  She was actually surprisingly resilient.  We have also found a few organizations that have done trips, etc. for parents and kids and those have also been really helpful to get her a support system her own age where she can talk to other kids about the feelings she might be having.

The Invisible String was my favorite.  It's so amazing that there are such great resources like these available for parents and kids ❤️

My young nephew is currently battling cancer, will definitely be purchasing and gifting him some of these amazing books! 

Just purchased 3 of these books on amazon for one of my friends young son who currently has cancer, I think he will really enjoy!

Cancer Hates Kisses was my son's favorite hands down.  It was really hard to find books that were suitable for kids of such young ages.  I loved having the book to use to talk to him about tough subjects because it made it seem less scary for him.  Helping our littles get through this is so hard on us as moms, so I'm glad that these exist.  

I just purchased 2 books. Will be buying some more. Thank you community.

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Books to Help Children Cope With a Cancer Diagnosis

Learned a lot from this article that I did not know before, this was a nice article.

It's unimaginable to have to go through cancer thinking of a baby too.  Especially in light of all of the Roe v. Wade talk these days I really think that we have a lot to think about related to women and reproductive rights / issues and cancer. 

Great read, I was able to learn a lot from this article!

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What You Need to Know About Pregnancy and Cancer

Being a parent with cancer comes with many extra challenges. Give and get advice from other parents like you. 

 Parenting with Cancer

To make a decision to end chemo. treatments is a calming choice. Treatments are brutal. I am doing same mtself 

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Making the Decision to Stop Treatment for Yourself

Whether you're navigating end of life decisions yourself, or with a loved one, there are many newfound considerations. 